Contestant number 1, contestant number 2 and contestant number 3, for this section of the pageant. We’d like to ask you how you would use your intellect, compassion and heart to help “the man of your dreams,” in areas of relationship-building he struggles with.
If “the man of your dreams…” was knowingly reachable by text, by email, by social media and by phone, but he wasn’t as confident in reaching out to you directly on his own accord, would you two ever speak again?
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If “the man of your dreams…” broke out of his comfort zone multiple times in the past, by telling you/ verbally admitting and acknowledging he certainly does/ or did have an influx of nervous, loving energy he was dying to share with you or that he was “interested” in you.. Would you tell him he was safe thinking and hoping his dreams of mutual compatability could come true?
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How would you make sure he understood you saw potential too? Please detail how that conversation might go. Knowing his past has some unflattering parts to it, would you help him overcome barriers only he saw? Would you ask him if he was nervous too? Would you suggest taking things slowly? Will you protect his heart by being the brave one? Would you confess to having fears too?
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Will you let him know the door to meeting eye to eye is still open? When he flakes, cowering in fear, will you tell him to relax and open up?
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Will you encourage him to be brave? Will you give him a roadmap to your heart? Will you explain to him how to reach you privately?
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